Add a touch of mystery around you
Don’t be boring and reveal all your character.
Don’t show all your cards. In fact, quietly chew a few cards and swallow them.
The world is packed with boring people like boring nitrogen is in the atmosphere. Be the oxygen. In fact, be the rare cancer-inducing radioactive element. (I know nitrogen does a lot of good silent thankless work. That is not my point.)
Does this mean you obsess over what other people think about you? No! The opposite. You become mysterious by not caring what others wonder about you.
Act like a Instagram model. They selectively reveal their lucsious butts and get all the eyeballs. You too reveal only some parts while hinting at more exciting depths of your personality. This will get you eyeballs.
Of course, in the grand scheme of things, all this work will amount to shit. But while you are here, you may have a good time.
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